Dealing with Preteen Anxiety

My almost 13 y/o daughter came to me today dealing with a full blown anxiety attack. I am grateful she came to me at this age. But preteen girls are mean. She’s been hearing through the grapevine about how girls don’t like her, she is “too much”, and she weird. People also tell her that her friends are weird. She’s doesn’t do TikTok videos and doesn’t color coordinate her outfits with the popular girls at school. Today it finally became too much. Do parents not know what their kids are doing or do they not care? Is the sense of entitlement in today’s preteens and teens out of control because parents don’t care? I want my kid to be her authentic self but it is so overwhelming to her right now. We talked it out for a bit just to stop her brain from repeating the same message over and over again. She did manage to pull herself together and went to the local high school football team with a couple of her friends. Praying for a better day tomorrow.